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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Behind Every Man..


It is said that behind every successful man, lies a woman.. Is it true?

No matter what he had achieved, no matter what he did, no matter how big his tittle is, no matter how large his assets is, a man really need a woman to counter balance his life.
Trying to deny this? You are gay..

For me,
The Rise and Fall of Every Man must be subjected to himself, although it is true that a woman is always be the reason for most of occasions.

Woman? "No, I don't need a girlfriend (or girlfriends for some) to make me achieve such achievements." Please, don't narrow your mind to a very small perspective. She could be your girlfriend, your life partner, wife, or maybe your mother, even your sister!

Frankly, I agree with 'Behind Every Successful Man, Lies a Woman'.

For some reasons, everything in this perfect world comes in pairs. You have left and right heart to keep you alive, you have the left and right ear to keep you balance, and you have your left and right hand and leg to keep you mobile.

As mentioned in the holy Quran, Sura Yasin, aya 36:

Glory be to Him, Who has created all the pairs of that which the earth produces, as well as of their own (human) kind (male and female), and of that which they know not.

See, its nature.. God created things in pairs!

Everyone actually need motivation for all their acts. According to Stephen R. Covey, the world wide famous author, everybody have their own centre. It could be money centered, family centered, work centered, or even spouse centered, just to name some. You could find your own sense of security guidance, power and wisdom through these centers.

From my observation, men is stronger than women physically and mentally. This is undeniable. But men could be stronger when there is women around. Ego, the feeling of pride and superiority of men is the core why men are better when being accompanied by women. He would be more competitive, more motivated, and more proactive when there is she.

Personally, for people like me, who are spouse centered, ehem ehem, is likely to have someone on our back to support us, cheer us, to ... (too many to be mentioned) and bla bla bla.. So all that we need is a woman to be the spine, the backbones for us to achieve constant glory.

So, its ups to you to conclude the saying that 'behind every successful man, lies a woman' is true or just a trash..

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